That is my motto of life.. No married men please.. But men are such hopless cases I swear. You can't imagine the number of times married men have approached me and even offered me marriage.. A second wife status I mean. But I always tell them, thanks but no thanks. I am not interested in breaking up a marriage or take undue curses of a poor victim woman. I can't believe women who actually end up being the other woman. Pixiequeen, you do have a valid point here but if all men and all women started following your advise, you won't be hearing any more cases of men having multiple wives.. Here in the Middle East, it is more of a cultural thing..I personally condemn going after married men.