They are such shameless creatures.. There is one working with me who always tries to come and chat and not only that, he also tries to put in a word or two about his wife.. She is not good enough.. she cannot cook.. She does not have time for me.. She is always busy with her work and once she gets home, she just sits on the laptop all evening chatting to her mother and sister. She has not time for me.. I feel so frustrated.. I just listen and smile and say .. sorry to hear that.. bad luck chap.. Better luck next time.. LOL.. What does he think I am? A fool? I wasn't born yesterday.. I know exactly what these men are looking for. First a sympathetic shoulder probably something else later..God men are so cheap I swear.. Shameless as well.. Not to mention really stupid if they think a few tears will get any women in their bed..