And I have come across quite a few of these online but fortunately they were not in Qatar. They were mostly settled or at least they claimed to be settled in US, UK or Canada and they make promises of coming to see you and then they ask you for money for air fare.. Hahaa.. They actually believe that I would naive enough to send them money. Since I am expert in these kind of things, there are a lot of tell tale signs which one should be aware of..
1. These con artists seem far too much into you right from day one. They claim they have never met anyone like you and you were the one they have been waiting for all their lives.
2. They will send you very attractive pictures of themselves but when you ask them to show themselves on webcam, they would always back out saying the camera does not work or some kind of lame excuse which obviously means that the picture they sent you is probably some good looking model or something.
OR
3.They always chat with you from a cyber cafe and never from home. In this case they show themselves on a webcam and you might wonder how come a good looking guy like him is still single.. They always say the internet at home sucks or they live in an area which does not have a good internet connection or their laptop at home is not working or something or the other.. These men are already married and have a family at home so obviously they cannot do all this from home hence the cyber cafe. These men also swich off their mobiles or never answer them once they get home. They probaby have a separate cell number for these kind of activities which they switch off once they go home to their unsuspecting wives.
4. They sometimes have very pity stories like their wives left them or someone else or wife died of cancer and they have a small kid who really needs a mother.
5.They would make some sort of story that they don't have cash at the moment and they need money to pay their child's school fees or their rent or to buy airfare to come and see you.
If you are smart enough, you would never send them a penny or even give them your bank account.
I just made a mistake once when I was still new to this cyber dating stuff way back in 1999 and I sent out a couple of thousand bucks to a guy who was supposed to come down to see me but ofcourse he never did.. After that I have never ever trusted anyone when it comes to monetary issues.
So my dear sisters, be careful when you talk to strangers on the internet and never give away too much personal information. Never give them your address and your bank acccount details and needless to say, never send them money no matter how genuine they seem..
I hope this information will be useful for many..
Last but not least, be careful of these sites
Mehndi.com
Shaadi.com
Match.com
Shaadionline.
There are a lot of crooks out there on these dating/matrimonial sites..
And I have come across quite a few of these online but fortunately they were not in Qatar. They were mostly settled or at least they claimed to be settled in US, UK or Canada and they make promises of coming to see you and then they ask you for money for air fare.. Hahaa.. They actually believe that I would naive enough to send them money. Since I am expert in these kind of things, there are a lot of tell tale signs which one should be aware of..
1. These con artists seem far too much into you right from day one. They claim they have never met anyone like you and you were the one they have been waiting for all their lives.
2. They will send you very attractive pictures of themselves but when you ask them to show themselves on webcam, they would always back out saying the camera does not work or some kind of lame excuse which obviously means that the picture they sent you is probably some good looking model or something.
OR
3.They always chat with you from a cyber cafe and never from home. In this case they show themselves on a webcam and you might wonder how come a good looking guy like him is still single.. They always say the internet at home sucks or they live in an area which does not have a good internet connection or their laptop at home is not working or something or the other.. These men are already married and have a family at home so obviously they cannot do all this from home hence the cyber cafe. These men also swich off their mobiles or never answer them once they get home. They probaby have a separate cell number for these kind of activities which they switch off once they go home to their unsuspecting wives.
4. They sometimes have very pity stories like their wives left them or someone else or wife died of cancer and they have a small kid who really needs a mother.
5.They would make some sort of story that they don't have cash at the moment and they need money to pay their child's school fees or their rent or to buy airfare to come and see you.
If you are smart enough, you would never send them a penny or even give them your bank account.
I just made a mistake once when I was still new to this cyber dating stuff way back in 1999 and I sent out a couple of thousand bucks to a guy who was supposed to come down to see me but ofcourse he never did.. After that I have never ever trusted anyone when it comes to monetary issues.
So my dear sisters, be careful when you talk to strangers on the internet and never give away too much personal information. Never give them your address and your bank acccount details and needless to say, never send them money no matter how genuine they seem..
I hope this information will be useful for many..
Last but not least, be careful of these sites
Mehndi.com
Shaadi.com
Match.com
Shaadionline.
There are a lot of crooks out there on these dating/matrimonial sites..