That is the ideal situation and yes Pilgram that would be wonderful to meet a guy at a party but these days it is not easy and plus the interent is not such a bad place to meet someone.. As I mentioned, it does have a success rate and I know quite a few women and one man who met their life partners on shaadi.com. Go check it out, it is not such a bad place but beware.. There are crooks otu there as well.