I mentioned she had an issue of being rude. Like the last time we argued was because I asked her what did she finish at home, because he is very slow when working, so she told me and said that why am I asking her when I know how she works and I know shes clean and its been 2 years since she is here so I should stop asking her. Then I told her that its my right to ask her, I dont ever ask her, so when I ask her she maked a big deal. Then I started telling her that when she started making the disrespectful thing of not allowing me to talk, like I would talk but then she would talk also avoiding to let me concentrate in what Im saying. Then I tell her that she should stop doing that and respect me! I told her: you are a 40yr old woman, and you always say that you are educated, so people educated dont talk like this, you have to respect and allow me to talk first. Then she goes and says "oufffffffff" and goes to the kitchen and tells me "well you should use your education to know how to talk' I was like WHAT? I started raising my voice because I hated what she said and I told her you have no right to say that, bla bla' then she slapped my hand and told me not to point at her, then I help her hand and I told her that if she touches me again she is going to be fired.
Then she tells my husband that she called the embassy and she told them I shouted at her and hit her. THATS INSANE!!!!!!!! Then we came home and we talked and she started to laugh and say that she feels sorry for me bcause once she goes to embassy they wont allow us bring another maid from there, then I told her i wont anyway, specially since she is lying maybe all are liars. then she says well even if bring from anotehr country they wont stay living with u for a day, then I told her well I wonder then why you lived with us for 2 years???????? She lived with us for 2 years and if we were doing something bad to her I dont think she would come to work with us again.
This is what I mean by power. She thinks she can talk to us like she wants to. She has disrespected my husband as well. Like also the other time, which was the first time she has done it in 2 years, we were at villagio and then she started to chat with a man, I went crazy. Why would she talk to someone we dont know? specially since she told us by then that she bought a mobile number. Then my husband told her to not talk to any man we dont know specially in her language, and that we dont mind her talking to another maids of ladies from her nationality, then she responded in a rude way that she respects people when they ask her and she will answer when they do, then hubby said even if i ask u? she said yes even because i respect people, then we told her its not allowerd, and I dont care if anyone says we r not allowed to do that, but yes we do and we will, she should respect the rules, and if she is talking at least talk in english and then we wont mind at all.
To be honest, she came back a little different, she wants to control more, adn work less, and again I say its our fault that we brought her.
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I mentioned she had an issue of being rude. Like the last time we argued was because I asked her what did she finish at home, because he is very slow when working, so she told me and said that why am I asking her when I know how she works and I know shes clean and its been 2 years since she is here so I should stop asking her. Then I told her that its my right to ask her, I dont ever ask her, so when I ask her she maked a big deal. Then I started telling her that when she started making the disrespectful thing of not allowing me to talk, like I would talk but then she would talk also avoiding to let me concentrate in what Im saying. Then I tell her that she should stop doing that and respect me! I told her: you are a 40yr old woman, and you always say that you are educated, so people educated dont talk like this, you have to respect and allow me to talk first. Then she goes and says "oufffffffff" and goes to the kitchen and tells me "well you should use your education to know how to talk' I was like WHAT? I started raising my voice because I hated what she said and I told her you have no right to say that, bla bla' then she slapped my hand and told me not to point at her, then I help her hand and I told her that if she touches me again she is going to be fired.
Then she tells my husband that she called the embassy and she told them I shouted at her and hit her. THATS INSANE!!!!!!!! Then we came home and we talked and she started to laugh and say that she feels sorry for me bcause once she goes to embassy they wont allow us bring another maid from there, then I told her i wont anyway, specially since she is lying maybe all are liars. then she says well even if bring from anotehr country they wont stay living with u for a day, then I told her well I wonder then why you lived with us for 2 years???????? She lived with us for 2 years and if we were doing something bad to her I dont think she would come to work with us again.
This is what I mean by power. She thinks she can talk to us like she wants to. She has disrespected my husband as well. Like also the other time, which was the first time she has done it in 2 years, we were at villagio and then she started to chat with a man, I went crazy. Why would she talk to someone we dont know? specially since she told us by then that she bought a mobile number. Then my husband told her to not talk to any man we dont know specially in her language, and that we dont mind her talking to another maids of ladies from her nationality, then she responded in a rude way that she respects people when they ask her and she will answer when they do, then hubby said even if i ask u? she said yes even because i respect people, then we told her its not allowerd, and I dont care if anyone says we r not allowed to do that, but yes we do and we will, she should respect the rules, and if she is talking at least talk in english and then we wont mind at all.
To be honest, she came back a little different, she wants to control more, adn work less, and again I say its our fault that we brought her.