zazel, no im not sure, thats why im trying to find out more info without going into details of what they told me. if you notice in my post i did state "if" its true i will report it, i came here to try and find out if anyone could confirm. IMO to give all the details without my knowing the truth would be the wrong thing to do. if no one can confirm it i will take it as wrong infomation but if someone, for example a teacher at the school can back up the story then i dont see anything wrong with the detail going public.