You just married the wrong guy, thats all, and this other guy is probably the wrong guy too. In fact, there may not be a right guy anywhere

- by just going along you ruined 4 lives but there is good news, it gets better in about 15 to 18 years when the kids grow up..And yes your life sucks right now but you have a lot of life left and there's not too many 40, 50 or 60 year old women that wouldnt trade lives with you, no matter how badly you screwed yours up.

And BTW- Ive seen worse wifes than you. This isn't that bad. You just don't like your husband- Its a huge club with 100's of millions members