Rightly said jars, but sometimes some people take you too much for granted, and even though it's their own fears and complexes that make them TRY to trample upon others, it's important sometimes to make them realize that they can't just road-roll over you anytime they want. Being polite and kind, I can't advocate more (too much of a dearth of KIND people in this world), but there is a distinction between kindness and being spineless.