I don't have anything to say.......but I do think that people constantly change both inwardly & outwardly.....then what will keep you loving that person all your life....secondly, do we ever love anyone except ourselves...we love her because we think she is fun(entertainment)...we love her because she is kind(giving).........we love her because she is understanding, mature(putting my need ahead of hers).....every love is just extension of self love........rest is nonsense.