Sorry for the delay in response as I was quite busy durinng the weekend and didn't get to QL at all. To answer your question, I would not mind what my child does once he or she crosses 18. Once they are adults, it is their life and they are responsible for their actions. As far as sex out of wedlock is concerned, come on this is the 21st century, who waits till you get married? Unless you get married at 18.. Personally speaking you won't find a virgin guy over the age of 20 and a virgin girl over the age of 25.. Beyond that no one waits anymore.. No matter which country or relgion you follow.. So please SA wake up to the reality of life..