We are getting dragged again from the purpose of Ramadan and speaking of an eating Ramadan month and not as Omais said. As grown ups we happened to know how the prophet & the sahabas fasted and definitely not this way.
We have to spend for the poor if you really have that money with you. After the ramadan you all will be back again as normal out of those holy minds. What we all are supposed to do is control ourselves and our lavish mind to impress our friends with those parties, its not at all the meaning of ramadan.