mohdata , i can understand because i also have gone through the same conditions where my parents worked for our benefits we grow in some sort lonelyness during when we needed them most but when i came to their level where i am married and with a kid , now i understand why they both worked for us . its a very very sensitive and delicate condition ... and what acchabaccha said is also true marriages in different cultures and multiple marriages will only worse the life stlye and especially affect children of both women . May be qatari females getting married to an already married man ; this will one complicate things ,i dont think it would rite way of respecting a women . i would also vote techn's suggestion