I would rather blame it on the system of using nanis for bringing up of the children, which leaves both the parents to be free roaming around, while the nani takes care of the Kid.the child sees the parents and is not controlled beyond a certain point by the servant maids (poor maids). If parents are there they can bring them up the correct way. they will not go this extent.The generation where nanis were brought in qatar is the generation suffering now with divorces.