Equality of Men and Woman in Islam

Straight Arrow
By Straight Arrow

In one sense, equality between men and women is possible and reasonable because they are both human, with similar souls, brains, hearts, lungs, limbs, etc. In another sense, equality between men and women is impossible and an absurdity due to their natural differences in physical, mental, emotional and psychological qualities, inclinations and abilities. Between these two we must tread to illuminate how they are equal, and how they are complimentary.

If total equality between all members of the same gender is impossible due to natural differences in strengths and other qualities, regardless of whether the gender is masculine or feminine, then it is definitely impossible between the two genders. Allah, the Exalted and Almighty, says in the Glorious Qur'an:

(And of everything We have created pairs, that you may remember (the Grace of Allah).)

[51:49]

Even atoms exhibit this dual quality with inter-related and complementary roles played by the positive and negative particles and ions, yet each is an integral part of the whole system of the so called binary basis of all life. Most living beings have male and female sexes for reproduction. As the science of biology teaches us, all mammals have similar traits in their molecular and glandular structures that determine differences in gender. These basic physical, psychological and sexual traits have their definite effects on other spheres of life.

It is natural for a man to need and find fulfillment with a woman and for a woman with a man, since they are created one from the other and for one another. They both are inseparably bound to each other. Neither can they find fulfillment except when in the company of the other as legal and honorable mate and spouse, as Allah (The Almighty) says in His Majestic Book, the Qur'an, mentioned in the two verses cited in the preface:

(O Mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honorable of you in the Sight of Allah is the believer who has Taqwa (piety and righteousness). Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.)

[49:13]

In many instances Islam treats women as equals to men. Some of them are given below. In the coming sections we will expand on these themes in various contexts throughout the book.

1) Eqaulity in Basic Humanity
Both the male and the female are equal in terms of their humanity. Islam does not categorize women, for instance, as the source of evil in the world for some & original sin that caused Adam (Peace be Upon Him) to be dismissed from Paradise, or to be the cause of evil in the world by setting loose a Pandora's box of vices, as some other religious doctrines and fables teach.

Allah, the Exalted and Almighty, states in the Glorious Qur'an:

(O mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person (Adam), and from him (Adam) He created his wife (Eve), and from them both He created many men and women...)

[4:1]

Allah also states in the Glorious Qur'an:

(Does man think that he will be left neglected without being punished or rewarded for the obligatory duties enjoined by his Lord (Allah) on him? Was he not a mixed male and female discharge of semen pouring forth? Then he became a clot; then (Allah) shaped and fashioned (him) in due proportion, and made him into two sexes, male and female. Is He not able to raise to life those who are dead?)

[75:36-40]

Allah illustrated in the verses that He created both sexes from one single source. There is no difference between the two sexes in terms of qualifications in humanity, and each complements the other as the two genders of the species. Islam has abolished and abrogated all the previous unjust laws that demoted women as inferior in quality and nature. The Prophet of Allah (Peace be Upon Him) said:

Verily, women are the twin halves of men.

[Abu Dawood #234 , Tirmidhi #113 & others]

2) Equality in Religious Obligations
Equal religious duties and rituals are required from both women and men. Testimony of Faith (Shahaadah), Prayer (Salah), Obligatory Charity (Zakah), Fasting (Saum), and Pilgrimage (Hajj) are equally required of both genders. In some cases the requirements are a bit easier on women to alleviate their special cases of hardship. For instance, in consideration of her health and physical condition, menstruating women or a woman in the state of postnatal bleeding and recuperation are absolved from the duty of prayers and fasting. She is required to make up the days of fasting missed due to menses and postnatal bleeding, but not her prayers, as that would be too burdensome.

3) Equality in Rewards and Punishments
Both males and females have similar rewards for obedience and penalties for disobedience in this world and the Hereafter. As stated by Allah in the Glorious Qur'an:

(Whoever does righteous acts, whether male or female, while he is a believer, verily, to him We will give a good life, and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do.)

[16:97]

And the Lord Most Majestic says:

(Surely for men who submit to Allah and for women who submit to Allah, for believing men and for believing women, for devout men and devout women, for truthful men and truthful women, for steadfast men and steadfast women, for humble men and humble women, for charitable men and charitable women, for fasting men and fasting women, for men who guard their chastity and women who guard their chastity, for men who remember Allah much and for women who remember Allah much, for all of them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a mighty reward.)

[33:35]

4) Equality in Preservation of Honor and Nobility
Women have the same moral obligations and are entitled to the same general rights as men in guarding chastity, integrity and personal honor and respect, etc. No double standards are allowed. For instance, those who falsely accuse a chaste woman of adultery or fornication are publicly punished, just as if a man is slandered. Allah, the Exalted, states in the Glorious Qur'an:

(And those who accuse chaste women, and produce not four witnesses, flog them with eighty lashes, and reject their testimony forever. Indeed, they are those who are disobedient to Allah.)

[24:4]

5) Equality in Financial Dealings and Property Ownership
Women are equally qualified and allowed to engage in financial dealings and property ownership. According to Islamic law women can own, buy, sell and undertake any financial transaction without the need for guardianship, and without any restrictions or limitations - a situation unheard of in many societies until modern times.

6) Best of you is the Best to his Womenfolk
Islam indicates that a man who honors, respects and deals with women justly and integrally, possesses a healthy and righteous personality, whereas a man who mistreats them is an unrighteous and unrespectable man. The Prophet of Allah (Peace be Upon Him) said:

The most complete believer is the best in character, and the best of you is the best to his womenfolk.

[Tirmidhi #1162 and verified]

7) Equality in Education and Cultivation
Islam entitles women to the same rights as men in terms of education and cultivation. The Prophet of Allah (Peace be Upon Him) said, as reported and authenticated by the scholars of prophetic traditions:

Seeking knowledge is compulsory for each and every Muslim (i.e. both male and female).

[Ibn Majah #224 al-Baihaqi and verified]

Muslim scholars collectively agreed that the word Muslim when used in revealed scriptures includes both male and female, as we indicated in parenthesis. Thus, Islam entitles women to the same right of education in order to understand the religious and social obligations, and obligated them both to raise their children in the best manner, in accordance with the right Islamic guidance. Of course women have certain obligations in bringing up their children that are commensurate to their abilities and men have complementary obligations to finance, protect and maintain according to their added responsibilities in the family unit.

The Prophet (Peace be Upon Him) said:

Whoever takes care of two girls until they reach puberty, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection like this.” The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) then joined his fingers to illustrate this.

[Muslim #2631]

About female slave girls, the Prophet of Allah (Peace be Upon Him) said:

Whoever has a female child with him (under his guardianship from slavery), and trains her in the best behavior, and teaches her well, and then frees and marries her, will have a double reward.

[Bukhari #97 & Muslim #154 ]

8) Equality in Social Responsiblities
Men and women have similar obligations and responsibilities to reform and correct the society to the best of their capability. Men and women shoulder the responsibility of enjoining good and forbidding evil equally, as Allah, the Exalted, states in the Qur'an:

(The believers, men and women, are helpers, supporters, friends and protectors of one another, they enjoin all that is good, and forbid all that is evil, they offer their prayers perfectly, and give Zakah (Obligatory Charity) and obey Allah and His Messenger. Allah will bestow Mercy on them. Surely Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise.)

[9:71]

9) Right to Receive Fair Share of Wealth
Men and women have set and determined rights to receive their fair share of wealth, just as they are obliged to give Zakah (Obligatory Charity) according to the set calculation. All Muslim scholars unanimously agree upon this. A woman has her set share of inheritance, as will be discussed in more detail later, which was a right unthinkable in many societies.

Allah (The Almighty) says:

(There is a share for men from what is left by parents and those closely related, and there is a share for women from what is left by parents and those closely related, whether the wealth be small or large: a legal mandatory share.)

[4:7]

10) A woman, just like a man, can give someone the right of seeking refuge and security among the Muslims
Allah, the Exalted, says:

(And if one of the polytheists seeks refuge, give him until he hears the words of Allah, then take him to his place of security.)

The Messenger of Allah (Peace be Upon Him) said:

And the protection of Muslims is one, and the least among them can give protection; and whoever usurps the right of a Muslim then the curse of Allah and His angels and all the people is upon him, and no repentance or ransom will be accepted from him

[Bukhari #3008]

This is also proven by the famous story of Um Hani' (Mother of Hani') when she gave protection to a polytheist who sought refuge with her on the day of the conquest of Makkah after her relative threatened to kill that person (for some past enmity) so the Messenger of Allah (Peace be Upon Him) said,

We protect and give asylum to whomever you give asylum O Um Hani'.

[Bukhari #350]

These are just some of the rights, mentioned here as examples in a summarized way to indicate the comprehensive nature of the Islamic jurisprudence.

By QatariLady• 2 Jul 2009 22:27
QatariLady

Whoever has a female child with him (under his guardianship from slavery), and trains her in the best behavior, and teaches her well, and then frees and marries her, will have a double reward.

faulty translation!

In this Hadith the Prophet was referring to raising one's own daughters till they're old enough to get married!

Sadly, before the advent of Islam pre-Islamic Arabs used to kill their daughters after birth.. so the Prophet said this to prevent ppl from killing their own daughters..

By Straight Arrow• 2 Jul 2009 20:51
Straight Arrow

about general things.

By MikaylasMom• 2 Jul 2009 20:48
Rating: 4/5
MikaylasMom

This is Qatar Living isn't it, it's supposed to be about living in Qatar. It's not called Islam in Qatar, or Qatar Muslims, so maybe all the proselytizing (to convert or attempt to convert as a proselyte; recruit.)(To induce someone to convert to one's own religious faith.)(To convert (a person) from one belief, doctrine, cause, or faith to another.) that you are doing, which according to Islam is not right, you should post this stuff in the religious section.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/proselytizing

Motherhood...The hardest job you'll ever love! : )

By mmyke• 2 Jul 2009 20:41
mmyke

JUST GO AWAY,,,YOU ARE BEING PAID TO DO THIS....

By Straight Arrow• 2 Jul 2009 20:34
Straight Arrow

There are other forums which deal with work and living

By Straight Arrow• 2 Jul 2009 20:32
Straight Arrow

http://www.womeninislam.ws/en/women-right-islam_equality-men-women.aspx

By mmyke• 2 Jul 2009 20:20
mmyke

It is obvious that people are offended with your behaviour onthis site.

I repeat that I truly believe that you are being sponsored to do this.

Why don't you leave this site for good!!

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2009 20:15
anonymous

If you want to convert people to Islam don't use a site that is dedicated to people (mainly ex pats) who want to know about working and living in Qatar.

It is not a site for 'preaching'.

_________________________________________________

Man makes plans...............God smiles ;-)

By Straight Arrow• 2 Jul 2009 20:15
Straight Arrow

Ok I hope others will not be offended.

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2009 20:10
anonymous

for preaching and you have been asked repeatedly by the mods not to preach in the main forum and instead post in the Muslim group. I suspect that is why you are turning so many people off.

 

 

 

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM

By Straight Arrow• 2 Jul 2009 20:02
Straight Arrow

What makes you think that?

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2009 20:02
anonymous

and find a veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy longggggggggggggg boringgggggggggggggggg passage from the Bible and post that.

I am FED UP with copies and pastes from Koran. This is not a religious site, it is supposed to be about living in Qatar not converting to Islam.

I have said many times before if people are interested in converting to Islam they won't get inspiration from the forums on here.

_________________________________________________

Man makes plans...............God smiles ;-)

By mmyke• 2 Jul 2009 19:54
Rating: 4/5
mmyke

obviously being paid or being sponsored or are otherwise representing a group promoting these beliefs,,,,otherwise you would not be putting this amount of energy and time into this...unless you have nothing else to spend your life doing....

or, in fact, you are a group of several people, or an organization doing this....

its obvious.

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2009 19:36
anonymous

i sense catfight

khalid - - you had a point but man, you better get rid off the copy-paste syndrome..its sickening

PM --- love the courage

love war on words

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2009 18:52
anonymous

Source? What is source?

By anonymous• 2 Jul 2009 18:12
anonymous

:-)

 

 

 

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM

By Straight Arrow• 2 Jul 2009 18:05
Straight Arrow

I hope now it is getting better, have a nice time.

By anonymous• 14 Jun 2009 14:05
anonymous

hmm

By anonymous• 14 Jun 2009 13:45
anonymous

(that you will do it properly the next time) and then you don't. So to help you I have posted the link this time:

http://www.womeninislam.ws/en/women-right-islam_equality-men-women.aspx

I would have thought you learned this in school but will assume you did not so here's a simple reminder. It's very simple really. When you are using someone else's words you must credit them or it looks like you are trying to pass them off as your own words and ideas. That would be plagiarism and is not only unethical, but in some cases illegal. All you have to do is cite the source; in this case, just copy the URL of the page you are copying at the bottom of your post

 

 

 

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM

By Straight Arrow• 14 Jun 2009 13:40
Straight Arrow

Next time I will always put the link, have a nice time and a life full of peace and joy.

By anonymous• 14 Jun 2009 13:35
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

And remember Khalid: A person with integrity will always notice someone who has no integrity. If you want people to think you are an honest, decent person, then STOP plagiarizing. When you copy someone's words and pass them off as your own, you are essentially stealing. Do you think stealing is Islamic, Khalid? If you don't, then always post a link to your source!

 

 

 

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM

By Straight Arrow• 14 Jun 2009 13:26
Straight Arrow

I just posted it and remember PM a bad person will always think the others are bad.

By anonymous• 14 Jun 2009 13:22
anonymous

How many times are you going to steal someone's writing and pass it off as your own Khalid?

And eco, I am not referring to the Quran here but to the author's explanation -- which I know is not something Khalid could have written.

 

 

 

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM

By cynbob• 14 Jun 2009 08:48
cynbob

Wheww! You must be exhausted...all that cutting and pasting...again!

By lusitano• 14 Jun 2009 08:43
lusitano

He’s obviously just an ignorant pretending that he is a scholar of bull sh*t!

By anonymous• 10 Jun 2009 17:28
anonymous

You go girl!! Maybe he will get his reward in haeven being tortured by 300 pound women...

By Pajju• 10 Jun 2009 17:12
Pajju

lol MJ ... :)

By mjamille28• 10 Jun 2009 17:11
Rating: 4/5
mjamille28

you may only post these once you have learned how to respect and not put some other religions in the Funnies section, until then, lots of people will find you're full of S**t..

By anonymous• 10 Jun 2009 17:09
anonymous

Nothing is more relaxing than flying like an Eagle in Heaven !!

NOT AGAIN PLZZZZZZZZZZ!!!

THIS IS A LEGEND :) NO EQUALITY BETWEEN BOTH SEXES IN ISLAM!

By Pajju• 10 Jun 2009 17:07
Pajju

when u will stop this puckin copy paste ?

By anonymous• 10 Jun 2009 17:05
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

About female slave girls, the Prophet of Allah (Peace be Upon Him) said:

Whoever has a female child with him (under his guardianship from slavery), and trains her in the best behavior, and teaches her well, and then frees and marries her, will have a double reward.

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