Hey Guys You Should Marry!

nyc comments;P

Xena: That ain't the meaning that RP has given, but maybe he was just joking ;)

Only God Can Judge Me

الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer

أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ

illegal sex, and "brought to exile" means she got married.... I could be wrong though...

"if you don't like the heat... get out of the kitchen... but stop trying to fan the flames before you leave... it will burn you on the a** as you go through the doorway...." ME

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lol janney ;)

i got the part of illegal sex but "Brought to exile" is new 4 me :)

RS: no prob buddy, :)

Only God Can Judge Me

الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer

أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ

janey janey!!!! you've been getting some illegal sex! Good for you girl ;P

RP.. LOOOL!

looool. I definitely didnt got it at first. good explanation POPE.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Illegal sex = The act of mating.

Brought to exile= Way too many orgasm in bed.

LOL

“Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful,”

Realsomeone.. sigh. You didn't get the joke. :(

lol Janey. "caught having illegal sex" so are you deported or what?

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Guys, just wanted to say I wasn't on QL lately because I was caught having illegal sex and was brought to exile.

Realsomeone, it's soo true.

Well thanks finally a word of appreciation from you :)

thanks too Plateo as always.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Chill out dude. No one is perfect, not even freaking religion. Only your God is perfect inside your heart.

When you get married finally, just keep us inform and updated with a daily journal of your marriage encounters.

Don't tell me that you never had secret desires when a beautiful lady walks in front of you?

You are no saint at all, neither perfect. Don't lie about it, be a man and admit to it.

“Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful,”

Cool man, just chill out. Anyhow your post is pretty good.

“Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful,”

RS: Great, hope everything will run on wheels with your private life ;)

Only God Can Judge Me

الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer

أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ

God-fearing individuals in the real sense and not what is prevalent now or what is acceptable to society. Our God is God of righteousness and He clearly defined what is right and what is wrong. To Him, right is right but human, when it is prevalent and accepted by society, they taught it is right in front of God but truthfully, it is wrong. Of course you don't expect that to atheist or to non-believers, but as a person, yes, we should respect their views, as they respect ours. Judgment comes in the end. Peace to all!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

lol Pope, I have never claimed to be saint, perfect or even religious, I am just ordinary guy like any other guys around i just happen to be practicing muslim and far far from perfect.

and by the way, I am married and happy with it at the moment. and i am not naive about marriage too i know some of its ups/downs.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

forgot about it.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Imam was convicted in Britain a few years ago for indecency towards children.

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HE WHO DARES WINS

They aren't molesting them because they can't marry. Many pedophiles join the church because it gives them easy access to children, same as why many become teachers. I dont' know if imams get much of a chance to be alone with kids, but if they do then there's probably quite a few molesting children too.

Unfortunately, the same goes here. Average married "Ahmed" spend his days as follow; work-majles-home The only time he get to see his family is at lunch & bed time. I’m not saying all has the same routine. But some can’t skip the habit. I know only few who actually spend quality time with their wives & they always come from certain families.

There is no secret in this church.

QL is my living church!

Don't tell you Mother in law.

“Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful,”

God-fearing individuals in the real sense and not what is prevalent now or what is acceptable to society. Our God is God of righteousness and He clearly defined what is right and what is wrong. To Him, right is right but human, when it is prevalent and accepted by society, they taught it is right in front of God but truthfully, it is wrong. Of course you don't expect that to atheist or to non-believers, but as a person, yes, we should respect their views, as they respect ours. Judgment comes in the end. Peace to all!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

God-fearing individuals in the real sense and not what is prevalent now or what is acceptable to society. Our God is God of righteousness and He clearly defined what is right and what is wrong. To Him, right is right but human, when it is prevalent and accepted by society, they taught it is right in front of God but truthfully, it is wrong. Of course you don't expect that to atheist or to non-believers, but as a person, yes, we should respect their views, as they respect ours. Judgment comes in the end. Peace to all!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

I don't know about Qatar, but i can comment on Saudi Arabia.

The divorce rate is not to do with lack of sex, but more the culture. The males spend a lot of time with other male colleagues / family members, whilst ignoring the wife / family.

Like always you are such a narcissist, living a perfect world. It just happens that your own world is full hypocrites too, doing the same crap over and over.

Your cover up is 'RELIGION'....

“Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful,”

i dont know about this bcause of i am still bachelor.....so

now let's focus on Vegas question can a marriage be based on good sex?

I think it’s a must. This region has a high Divorce rate, married women complains they are not getting any or not too often. This have been discussed openly in TV-shows throughout the Arab –World. Kuwaiti Sexologist-Dr. Fowzia al doray receives hundreds of calls from women from the Arabian gulf on ALRAY channel complaining how miserable their sex lives. Has Islam made us sexophobics? Arab men have always been accused to be consumed with taboos & guilt. No wonder, too many of us can't wait for the weekend to run to dubai & bahrain...

You can't do it in secret..

catholics have to "post" their intention to marry at the local church..

Gypsy

Shhhh!! be quiet girl.... I would married you any time, any where in secret.

Don't tell anyone....

“Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful,”

Guess being bought up in a multi cultural society, saw the days of the National Front and now living in a society in Britain where we have these kind of issues every day.

So what we learn and how we live in our society can only be done by repecting each other. O yes and all the acts of law we have also to protect people from all forms of discrimantion. No matter what their beliefs are..

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HE WHO DARES WINS

Actually smart buddy I was simply engaging in a conversation on marriage and the importance of it. IF realsomeone doesn't want opinions he shouldn't post these things on a public forum.

For a Brit, you sure talk sense...:o)

I agree we should respect people UKEng, but what I find is that people on this site can't separate the difference between respect for a person and respect for a religion. If I disagree with a religion, then by default I'm disrespecting them, which simply isn't the case, everyone should choose there path. These same people have no problems disrespecting me as they don't believe that I have any beliefs to be respected.

Basically the tone of this site is do as I say, or else.

"I have no issues with other peoples lifestyles".....then what are u doing in this thread which is talking about Young Muslim guys / girls...Read the first post again.

its u who are looking down ur nose at others who prefer marriage over live in!

Its upto everyone what kind of lifestyle they choose. I for one have no problem with you choice Gypsy. One should never enforce their ideas on others.

My view is that God may forgive you for obiligations towards him. But he will not forgive you for the obligations towards mankind. the most importnat one is to respect every human no matter who or she is. Only then one can understand the different points of view.

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HE WHO DARES WINS

I have no issues with other peoples lifestyles UKEngQatar, my argument is when others try to enforce their lifestyle on me or look down their nose at me because of my choices, that don't effect them.

Gypsy. You have perception of life is which suits you. As Mis-Cat pointed out that in the western society people are no longer religious any more and people have children outside of wedlock and feel quite happy about it.

Marriage is a Union of a Man and Women in front on God, not matter which religion you come from. Just as the western societies have developed (or some would same gone astray) they have distance themselves from religion. Nowadays people do not understand that marriage is an obligation and requirement of your religious beliefs which has been conviently catered for by the secular societies.

In conclusion if your are not religious then Marriage does not mean any thing to you but if you are then it is part and parcel of your belief.

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HE WHO DARES WINS

I'm sorry smartbuddy, did I say I sleep with anyone anytime, please get your mind out of the gutter. And my parents are very happy with my choice of lifestyle, and are very much looking forward to the day when they get their "bastard" grandchild, as am I.

your parents must be really happy with your attitude to sleep with anyone anytime, without marrying!!!

u are an excellent gift to the parents who have been happily married for 32 years!!!

FS if a person is staying with me just because of a sheet of paper then I'm better off without him, Good riddance. My life doesn't revolve around a man nor do I need a man for anything beyond getting knocked up. If he chooses to be part of his child's life I won't stop him, but I'll never need him either.

And for your information smartbuddy my parents have been happily married for 32 years without a fight. So you can take your self righteous attitude and shove it up your A$$

no offense meant...It was not a personal comment.

QS ….You regret so soon? LOL

i did.. :(

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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

But they were born out of LOVE...and not some obligation too my husband too produce offspring....

"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.

At least in some parts of the world such children are called B******..:(

You are rght brit..

Those who dont wana marry pls dont have kids . Thats selfishness and cruelty to deny a family and a dad to the poor innocent kid.

Thanks to Latex.

brit thanks for pointing that, you just wrote it as I was writing the same thing.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Realsomeone's posting was aimed squarely at Muslims..

"Its common now a days to delay getting married, oh am still young, i am enjoying life etc is the common statements you hear from Young Muslim guys / girls. read this hadith. .."

If you are a Muslim, give your viewpoint.. If not, then just ignore it..

So how did we get into these aruments ???

Both mine are...

Realsomeone - Being today is technically speaking only 3 years since I married it is also just over 7 years since I found out I was pregnant with my first and My husband and I made a commitment to each other, no church no celebrant, just our favorite late night bar, with "Never Tear us Apart" playing in the back ground and our promise to each other. We only married officially when we found out there was a possibility we were coming here, did getting married change the way we felt about each other? No it was just a piece of paper we needed to get to make our lives here easier in order for us to come here. In fact if we had never thought of coming here I doubt we would have made it legal, ever in that sense. We have friends who have been together 16 years and never married and the one thing that keeps them together is themselves, no piece of paper, no church and no god.....By the way we didn't marry in a church, we had a traditional "Hand Fasting" in my parents back yard there was no promise to god only to each other.....

"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.

If she is also earning you can double your income and property..lol

Just to disturb your "statistics" a little, smartbuddy. My parents were married for 57 years and I never saw them fighting. But they were fu*king non-Muslims.

Beautiful Hadith but u should know that this site is virtually taken over by non-muslims who believe everything and anything is OK, most must have seen their parent fight and break off for someone else, maybe thats the reason they justify live in relationship where u can change partners like clothes and never have a stable life.......

leave them alone.....

JazakAllah Khair for the nice Hadith.

I'm blessed, brit. She died already.

You forgot the main culprit.. THE MOTHER IN LAW!

"Legal" sex can become boring. "Illegal" sex has that extra kick. Getting married is a "legal" act which makes you lose half of your income or property. Did I forget anything?

Ok I understood...

just a question..do you think the person who is with you without marriage will stay with you for long? dont you think when you grow old...he will look for someone younger and hot than you? And you hope to find a younger guy for you at that time? What if there are kids involved in that relation?

Btw..Do you think that your parents are still together just to avoid the hassles of getting divorceed?

I don't understand how children born out of wedlock cause confusion. The only confusion stems from people with conservative values that refuse to accept them, if everyone simply accepted children born out of wedlock as no different then children born within, there would be no confusion.

Not believing in marriage FS doesn't mean I won't find myself a life partner or three, I just don't believe in the actual concept of standing before a God I don't believe in, in a church I don't respect, and signing a paper that actually makes the seperation process even harder.

It's not natural for people to spend 60 years together and not grow a part or look for new partners, so I don't understand why we try to make this natural process so difficult.

WTH????people think marriage is just a legal licence for sex???how so very immature!whatever happened to the ideas of being together and finding your best friend in ur partner and even love???

good grief!what's happening to the world??

Keep smiling!

Saggi!

Well said!

Lol FS.. what did you have for breakfast today??

RS .. Good Hadith but people are misinterpreting the whole thing.

Marriage and family life is essential for a healthy society. Many ills of today could be iliminated if people and society took on responsibility. Too many children born out of wedlock (old term bastard.. but now acceptable) may cause some confusion in society.

The problem is not what RS has quoted its our understanding in todays materials prone and self centred societies.

RS just to add to what you have written above aiming at the Muslim Youth. I read somewhere also that those whom shall not marry.. even when have the resources to do so, their funeral or final prayers may not be accepted by God.

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HE WHO DARES WINS

lol Formatted soul. that is good piece for gypsy.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

When you get old ...you wont get anyone for so called illegel Sex..then dont repent for not having a equally old horny husband..lol

I actually do see a point to this but in the sense Realsomeone is misinterpreting it. Back in the days when this was said, men were very horny, the idea of getting married was so they could satisfy their urges with their wife and sometime back i read that if you have sex with ur your wife you will be rewarded by Allah. so that actually makes sense to me.

Times have changed since then. People dont marry for sex now a days coz there are plenty of other sources where horny men can go to satisfy their urge. Marriage today is still sacred and most of the time it happens when two people LOVE each other. Delaying getting married doesnt always mean we want to have fun, and screw every skirt that blows in the wind. In todays world our priorities are different, we have a career, our responsibilities towards family back home, etc some people are Marriage phobic like gypsy lol but that doesnt make us sinners.

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

Thanks for sharing this beautiful Hadith:)

Its because they didn't want to "expose" themselves and reveal their true focal lengths..

If it had been a dimly lit park or beach after sunset, then I hate to think what would have happened..

Both men and women went on a photo shoot around Souq Waqif and amazingly, no random acts of sex broke out between them - how did that happen??? ;o)

Did you Google it first?

You can't teach experience...

I had a blasting bachelorhood.. and it was sweet.

My Life got sweeter after ma marriage...

It got much more sweeter later when I becom a parent...

Those who disagree..sorry ..you had the wrong pick. Those who have not married, please wait untill u do.

"real: Oh you mean any man and woman who are not relatives shouldnt have anything to do with each other. What about friendships? colleagues?"

Winn: Unfortunatelly, in some countries, just like RS is saying, love only allowed after you get married, if things don'r work out, "just spend more money and find another potencial girl you may love".

RS: What i see wrong about different sex bachelors to be friends prohibition is that people are supposed to know each other before getting married, presently, out of religion, it's just a bunch of papers, the main thing is that Love is supposed to show up before marriage, not after, mostly to prevent that someone's wastes financial/psicological resources in vain.

Only God Can Judge Me

الله فقط يمكنه محاكمتي

I am you and you are me, if you love i love, if you suffer i suffer

أنا أنت, و أنت أنا, إذا أحببت نفسك أحببت نفسي, إذا عانيتَ عانيتُ

You can't teach experience...

well twisting as always.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

do not marry that woman you don't love. BUT you have also business having sex with her. It is just lust, right.

Gypsy, at least you said that magic phrase, " a life long contract". But it's you who said that divorce is an easy option if you don't like it anymore, so why afraid of marriage?

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Fasting dimnishes sexual power??????????????????????

No way .. GET ME MA MEALLLLL

MagicDragon _ you can always fall in love after marriage as he said earlier :)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

He's implying that real love isn't possible without sex MD. Or that real love revolves around sex.

"because once the two people are in relationship they are more prone to fall for illegal sex." and "Actually the real love begins after marriage" contradict each other, realsomeone.

...Divorced twice. Not going down that road ever again.

I have lots of friends who are women - doesn't automatically mean I want to bonk them all. If I did it would ruin a beautiful friendship.

Don't mind going to hell either ... at least I'll get to see all my friends again :O)

Did you Google it first?

MD, I am sure you and me will not come into terms on that one. and yes its normal now a days to fell in love with someone and marry but there should be caution. because once the two people are in relationship they are more prone to fall for illegal sex.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

charan, if I don't "love" her, why should I consider having sex with her??

MagicDragon - "why should I consider marrying her??"

so that you can have legal Sex :)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

Lock myself into a life long contract with someone I might not be able to stand in a few years. No thank you.

Realsomeone, one question: if I don't love a woman, why should I consider marrying her??

Oh Oryx, ok where are the all the desperate guys on QL?? here is your chance.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

no your idea! you go and find me one ;)

I'm married. I think once is more than enough! Thank you very much!

I dream of a better tomorrow where Chickens can cross the Road without having their motives questioned - Unknown

The price is definitevely too high, charan.

Well i am not holy soul and have my ups and downs, and also i am not actually the type of person you call religious but i believe religion and life cannot separated.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

MagicDragon - Price = Marriage :)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

He is the messenger sent to QL by the God :)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

How much will he charge, charan? I'm not willing to pay 'any' price.

Yes Rizks Happily.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Realsome do you really believe that real love comes after marriage?? for some it's love before marriage.. anywayz I will play the field for while.

Cheers all

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Heard your wife left you,

How upset you must be.

But don't fret about it...

She moved in with me.

MagicDragon - never buy without trying 1st. otherwise you are doomed for the rest of your life :)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

"Actually the real love begins after marriage", and that's why there are so many divorces. Because in many cases it doesn't begin. Your statements, realsomeone, are unproven opinions. But you post them as if you were the only one here who posesses the truth.

MagicDragon - "Where exactly is hell?"

Flag down a Karwa Taxi and ask the Smelling Driver to take you there :)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

Realsome Are U MARRIED ??

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Hiya MD.. come to think about it MD.. hhmmm... yea you are right MD. more field to play with eh..

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Heard your wife left you,

How upset you must be.

But don't fret about it...

She moved in with me.

Actually the real love begins after marriage.

Oryx maybe QL should add classifieds section for husbands/wives. :D

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

real: Oh you mean any man and woman who are not relatives shouldnt have anything to do with each other. What about friendships? colleagues?

Ahh...forget it...better to chuck it all n HAVE a LIFE!!

You go with all those scriptures, I go with sin, fornication and hell....Nice to have known you, O holy soul!!

brutus, more fun without marriage, even more fun.

I'm with Qatarisun on this one. more marriage more fun.

cheers all

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Heard your wife left you,

How upset you must be.

But don't fret about it...

She moved in with me.

coz i won't settle down with ANYONE unless I'm in love with him...or he to me (including my kids, too) ;-P

ok i will! you just need to find me a husband!!

You're all talking about a beautiful and inspiring place. Where the hell is it? (Except that it appears in my question).

I get to have lunch with Elton John!!!! Sweet! All the cool and interesting people are going to hell. :D

i can STARVE the whole day/weeks- but SEX, No Way ....lol

j/k

Beautiful Words By ALLAH

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that is what Realsomeone is talking about. Since there are religions which allows multi marriage, then good for them, more sex partners. As long as it is done within the boundary of God-recognize (or in some belief, state-recognize marriage, which I am not in comformity such as same sex marriage), an individual is answerable already to God for his or her action.

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

You cannot threaten me with your prophecies, realsomeone. Where exactly is hell?

I can live with having lunch with Elton John and Jeffery Dahmer!

Thx realsome for the useful info.

I will frm NOW HAVE PROTECTED SEX ALWAYZ.....:)

the side effect is you will have lunch with gays,killers,etc in hell. :D unless you repent.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Then this is just a reminder for the rest of the youth: Try Before You Buy!

Heard ABt it Charan.... dont know exactly !!!

Realsome if wearing condom n havin illegal SEX - watz the side effects ??

This is just a reminder for those Muslim youth to marry when they are able to.

Winn. read my earlier comment about the relatives.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

i do believe in marriage..and then in next one.. and then in next one.. :)

Azi: Being Romantic is a punishable offence!! Beware!! Now be a good girl n fast for the rest of the day!!

Real:"Come WINN dont be naive , see why guys are after girls and why girls are after guys??? "

Is that what all human relationships are about...geez!!

Dont you have any friends? (assuming you are a man)relatives? acquaintances? You mean to say the motive is sex in all human relationships?

Take a break, dude! You need rest!!

oh ok then if he says so....

only if it's "out of love" (yaiiks, MUSHY ;-P) and not because of convenience or comfort.

I believe marriage is a PARTNERSHIP...union of the hearts and minds. Guess I'm a hopeless romantic...lol

Sex is healthy, has no side effects and makes you live longer more happily. Marriage often does the opposite. Marriage should be made ILLEGAL.

A country law is not in discussion here, its God's Law.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

You can get lots of companionship from someone in an "illegal" relationship, what about all those people who are living together, or who have children together and aren't married, do you think they aren't getting companionship??

The whole purpose of dating someone is for companionship, so all those boyfriends and girlfriends out there are getting the same thing all those married people are (except probably better!)

Alright. Garbage started to flow as usual :)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

Rizks illegal sex has also side effects...

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

In some countries its illegal to have more than one wife...so therefore theres alot of illegal sex and companionship going on.....

Rizks - Really ?????????

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

lol supernurse, good question.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Yeah companionship but you wont get that from someone with illegal relationship. its not only the sex which is illegal but the whole relationship between women and man who aren't relatives.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Pillz HAv Side Effects :(

Realsomeone...have you made this up yourself?

Sex is one reason, but not the biggest. For woman especially they are looking for companionship, men as well.

Rizks - I thought conterseptive(spelling?)pills are for that perpose :)

is (Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

Oh sorry, ofcourse men means women and men...silly me..

Come WINN dont be naive , see why guys are after girls and why girls are after guys???

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Does it really have societal importance? Frankly I don't see how the world would be any different without marriage.

Real: "the very basic purpose of human relationships man/women comes to sex "....now where did that come from?

Basic reason for human relationships is sex???....What The F***?? (pun intended)

You can't teach experience...

Charan .....Wearing tat we r having LEGAL SEX ALSO ....:)

Yes its personal decision but it has societal benefits/importance.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

So, let me get this right.....if you never marry you will have to fast for the rest of your life......ooohhh sounds real bad! I'd take off down to the bars and drown myself in drink.......maybe thats what the lads carol was on about were doing!!!

Sigh, such narrow little minds.

Only in some countries. In other's it's perfectly legal. There's positively nothing wrong with sex between to consenting adults.

And actually the foundation of almost all human relationships is companionship, socialization and emotional support. That's the core of any successful relationship, married or no.

OK gypsy, i know your stance, am I mad when i am arguing about illegal sex with Gypsy which i even know your stance about the bad guys (gays).

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

So its not illegal for women then?

Real: Marriage is a personal decision. Why should anyone say that one should/should not get married? I see it as infringement on personal liberties.

Rizks - wearing condoms ;)

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

right Realsomeone?

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

"No. I don't believe in marriage."

You broke my heart for the 100th time :(

Ban Spoon Feeding not Me

Now how is ILLEGAL SEX performed ??? :(

Illegal sex lol.....my word! Off with their heads!!

lol. the very basic purpose of human relationships man/women comes to sex and its illegal when you aren't married. ILLEGAL.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

Love how you put the term illegal before it, or break human relationships down to just sex. Like if it isn't marriage it's just sex. Pretty naive.

yes, marriage stops affairs....mmmm I love the private parts bit lmao

I know that you believe in illegal Sex.

Poverty is not for the sake of hardship. No, it is there because nothing exists but God. Poverty unlocks the door -- what a blessed key!

- Jalaluddin al-Rumi

No. I don't believe in marriage.