Man sues wife for beating..

Khanan
By Khanan

DOHA: A man in his forties has moved the family court saying he is a victim of his wife’s aggressive behaviour and gets frequently beaten up, sometimes very badly.

He has urged the court to come up with some solution to the problem as he said he did not want to divorce the wife, for that would make their children suffer.

“I have tried all possible ways to help end the problem. I have even taken my wife for marriage counselling but nothing has helped,” he told the court.

According to him, his wife, who is much younger to him and has a strong physique, began turning violent and using force only after she gave birth to the first child. “Earlier, she used to get enraged but never used physical force.”

The husband, who is a citizen, told the court that due to embarrassment he did not discuss the problem with anyone and always looked for excuses for the wife’s behaviour thinking she had some psychological problem.

“But things have gone beyond redemption now. Her behaviour is becoming more and more aggressive and I am frequently at the receiving end. She now threatens to beat the children as well. “I have finally decided to approach the court with the hope that it would find some solution to the problem.”

The husband said he tried to find out why his wife was resorting to violence and discovered that her father used to beat up her mother. “I think she has become defensive. She attacks me at the slightest provocation probably in self-defence,” he told the court.

(..Seriously, the "Victim" has the courage to speak in public and sue her. Other just bear it throughout.)

Source : http://thepeninsulaqatar.com/Display_news.asp?section=Local_News&subsect...

By anonymous• 12 Jan 2009 12:02
anonymous

Don’t worry about the past ..move forward with the coming gift that awaits you

It is always the lost that need my guidance

By genesis• 12 Jan 2009 11:59
genesis

She might be suffering of post partum depression. He’s a real man for being patient & not hitting back.

The problem in Qatar there are no real facilities to deal with PPD & its aftermath

By jessshan• 12 Jan 2009 11:48
jessshan

I admit your point But sometimes they need a Slap to be in the normal

By Keith Brown• 12 Jan 2009 11:32
Rating: 2/5
Keith Brown

"Real men Never hit women", so resorting to violence would do nothing but increase the problem. Obviously the wife has issues that need to be resolved, maybe they are problems with the man himself. Having grown up in a home where issues were resolved through violence she has learned this as a form of communication . Couselling and anger management are the best means of resolving the problems .

However, like an alcoholic , the individual has to FIRSTLY acknowledge that they have a problem for the second step to begin .

By qatarIT• 12 Jan 2009 11:25
qatarIT

Sonam, To get a divorce is easy thing than trying to work out on relns..I wud still say he is a "REAL MAN"..

By Khanan• 12 Jan 2009 11:13
Khanan

to be "Real" women ...:)

Alway "men" are being found responsible for domestic violence...

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Have Courage To Live.

Anyone Can Die.

By anonymous• 12 Jan 2009 11:06
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

He is not a Real Man, other wise its very simple to get rid of her.. TALAK TALAK TALAK get new and better one ;)

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By britexpat• 12 Jan 2009 11:00
britexpat

In India, A.K. Singh founded the Harassed Husbands Association in 1994 in the belief that while the spotlight was on abusive husbands, there are also many "poor men tortured by their wives."

By anonymous• 12 Jan 2009 10:55
anonymous

ENOUGH! Lol!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

By jessshan• 12 Jan 2009 10:36
Rating: 4/5
jessshan

Let him go to Gym and Build up his physique. Give her a good punch and never she will behave like that.

By SPEED• 12 Jan 2009 10:11
SPEED

about the kids !

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By mallrat• 12 Jan 2009 10:09
mallrat

.she belongs to psychia dept. ,

she is a f. mental........

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By thexonic• 12 Jan 2009 10:04
thexonic

She became the man of the house... lol i wouldn't be surprised.

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Lebanon... the love of my soul!

By Intelligent• 12 Jan 2009 09:41
Rating: 4/5
Intelligent

If marraige counselling did not work then the final solution to the problem is to tie her up and beat the crap out of her. lolz.....

Peace.

By qatarIT• 12 Jan 2009 09:30
qatarIT

Speed, He is the real MAN...He withstands everything for the kid..not a courageless junk to run away from the reln...

By skanky• 12 Jan 2009 08:37
skanky

Do you want me to tell Fatcat what you did with her gift??? that will put you in the same situation... plus I also will bring my safety boots this time.. Size 43 FYI.

The Venezuelan Sensation!!!

By SPEED• 12 Jan 2009 08:35
SPEED

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By DaRuDe• 12 Jan 2009 08:33
DaRuDe

she really should have asked me for help

By skanky• 12 Jan 2009 08:29
Rating: 4/5
skanky

Once one girlfriend get so upset with me and I start laughing and she throw me all her shows collection... Imagine 50 pairs of heels, 34 Boots, 25 Sandals and what ever was the rest... After that she want to kill me cause I never stop laughing at her...

That was unfair I only have 1 sandal and 1 pair of shoes...

The Venezuelan Sensation!!!

By jassKat• 12 Jan 2009 08:25
jassKat

Da?????

You poor wolfie :/

 

 

tra la la

By britexpat• 12 Jan 2009 08:19
Rating: 4/5
britexpat

Hats off to the guy.. He's man enought to realise that the marriage has poblems and is trying to resolve them..

By ksarat16• 12 Jan 2009 08:18
ksarat16

Khanan... Just now somewhere else you were telling Men are innocent ask Mrs. Khanan" yeah right if this is the way she finds your innocence...then o well, paaji, you deserve all the beating from your wife...:P

I know R-7 strange strange things happening in this world!!!

By Arien• 12 Jan 2009 08:18
Arien

Talak talak talak!!!!

Rather than growing seeing mom abusing dad, it would be better to be momless kids.

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Listen to Many..Speak to a few.

By r7• 12 Jan 2009 08:14
Rating: 4/5
r7

Khanan So sorry for ur pain :)

U could've told me and i would have guided u y u had to put up ur story here :)

Just kidding dude !!! Strange things r happening now a days..

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