Mangoes and Daughters! :)
This is such a refreshing news. Great work by these villagers.
It made my day, I love my daughters and I love the people who value their daughters. and I am fond of Mangoes.
WELL DONE!
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In India, where traditionally boys have been preferred over girls, a village in backward Bihar state has been setting an example by planting trees to celebrate the birth of a girl child.
In Dharhara village, Bhagalpur district, families plant a minimum of 10 trees whenever a girl child is born.
And this practice is paying off.
Nikah Kumari, 19, is all set to get married in early June. The would-be groom is a state school teacher chosen by her father, Subhas Singh.
Mr Singh is a small-scale farmer with a meagre income, but he is not worried about the high expenses needed for the marriage ceremony.
For, in keeping with the village tradition, he had planted 10 mango trees the day Nikah was born.
The girl - and the trees - were nurtured over the years and today both are grown up.
Dowry deaths
"Today that day has come for which we had planted the trees. We've sold off the fruits of the trees for three years in advance and got the money to pay for my daughter's wedding," Mr Singh told the BBC.
"The trees are our fixed deposits," he said.
The village looks like a forest or a dense green patch In Bihar, payment of dowry by the bride's family is a common practice. The price tag of the bridegroom often depends on his caste, social status and job profile.
The state is also infamous for the maximum number of dowry deaths in the country.
But the mango trees have freed Nikah's parents of undue worries. And their story is not unique in Dharhara village.
With a population of a little over 7,000, the village has more than 100,000 fully grown trees, mostly of mango and lychee.
From a distance, the village looks like a forest or a dense green patch amidst the parched and arid cluster of villages in the area.
'Great value'
And most residents can be spotted sitting in the cool orchards outside their homes.
"Now, we've stopped doing traditional farming of wheat and paddy. We plant as many trees as we can since they are more profitable and dependable," said villager Shyam Sunder Singh.
The villagers have been planting trees for generations Mr Singh paid for the weddings of his three daughters after selling fruits of trees he had planted at the time of their birth.
"One medium-size mango orchard is valued at around 200,000 rupees ($4,245; £2,900) every season. These trees have great commercial value and they are a big support for us at the time of our daughter's marriage," he says.
The villagers say they save a part of the money earned through the sale of fruits every year in a bank account opened in their daughter's name.
The tree-planting has been going on in the village for generations now.
"We heard about it from our fathers and they from their fathers. It has been in the family and the village from ages," says Subhendu Kumar Singh, a school teacher.
"This is our way of meeting the challenges of dowry, global warming and female foeticide. There has not been a single incident yet of female foeticide or dowry death in our village," he says.
His cousin, Shankar Singh, planted 30 trees at the time of his daughter Sneha Surabhi's birth.
Sneha, four, is aware that her father has planted trees in her name; the child says she regularly waters the saplings.
As yet she doesn't know what dowry is, and says the trees will bear fruits for her "to eat".
The village's oldest resident, Shatrughan Prasad Singh, 86, has planted around 500 mango and litchi trees in his 25 acres of land.
His grand-daughters, Nishi and Ruchi, are confident the trees mean their family will have no problem paying for their weddings.
"The whole world should emulate us and plant more trees," says their father Prabhu Dayal Singh
LINK :
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/world/south_asia/10204759.stm
Masha Allah........indeed a good news.
People should take some inspiration from such stories; who kills, exploit and cursed their girl child. :(
good initiative. and i love mangoes.
Excellent. The picture of the little girl is superb. It shows that people can change societies views if the will is strong enough...
wen i saw the title i thought its somme fun post... but ths seems 2 b a gr8 inspiring post... if every1 hav followd ths, our world will b again green.... hurrahh !! 2 Biharis...
But as happygolucky said, some politician will find a way to tax these clever villagers. Will another one bite the dust?
Good to read about such stuff...
This is really a great move by a citizen of BIHAR where girls r not send for higher education after certain stage..It is far better than the barbaric rules of HARYANA(i m sorry WK, if it hurts u but its a bitter fact..right?)...
thank you for sharing this story...it's nice to read all positive comments in a thread...
haven heard of this before. feel proud of them!!!
Fresh Dates ??
a commendable job!
i love Dates.....:)
Bad 503 error.....DP
Good Initiative....
All my respect for the whole village, and really thank you for sharing the story, if we really think as wise as these clever people we could have end in a cleaner and a nicer world ................All the respect
Biharis look money in Mangoes and Kerals look money in coconuts
what a great idea sir ji..:)
now I know why kerala is full of coconut trees:)
When we hear Bihar,always think of only Lalu and all his scams,But this the only Bihari got Indian Railways some drastic changes
Great to hear stories like these. Way to go.
P.S--My daughter loves :: "Mangoooooooooooooooes"
Though I appreciate the effort and congratulate them on their good work...but am also worried that now the trees would attract lot of attention for their commercial value and some idiot politician or local goon would try to grab them and bring trouble to these villagers.
The effort is commendable
WOW, such a commendable work...