i need advice now..please help me...

There are moments that it seems you are way down in the abyss and it seems there is no way up. But I tell you, God will not give all these woes to you if HE thinks you can't fight them. Be brave. Continue to have faith in God and you can make it.

thank you so much guysz to arabmon,infinite and alsboy i highly app[reciate your good advice...ohh u guyzs make me cry again now....

There r times in people's life wher woteva dey do or think wud always give dem a negative answer... but tht doesnt mean its de end of the world. I know itz a hard time 4 u, but wot u need rite now is courage & will power, which i believe most people wud say is a dumb thing 2 advice sumone who lost her brother and her sister who is in de hospital. Well frankly, its easy 4 otherz 2 say anything rite now, cos dey havn't lost out on any dear ones and neither do dey hav any of der dear ones admitted in de hospital. I was in ur stage once, last year; when unexpectedly my father passed away and it seemed tht de whole world was so dark and der was nothin i can do but cry out... But thts not true, when u do hav de courage and will power, u can change things, u can redefine urself, but yes... always remember tht God is der. Mayb it was 4 a reason ur brother was called, but tht doesnt mean tht u hav 2 bring down urself... U still hav ur sister. Try gettin in communication wit sumone out der in ur country who is close wit ur rite now, and find out every progress she is making and let her know through tht person tht u r wit her... If u get time, cry ur heart out... It wud help, it wud lighten u up a bit... Dont stop urself...

True,

what you feel is very normal with your brother passing away and your sister going into hospital.

What you can do as you are here in Doha might be more and much better then if you were back home:

1) you can financialy help and support your brothers and sisters back home.

2) you can pray to God to put your late brother ( and parents )in heaven

3) you have good friends all around you here praying with you and supporting you.

Heads up

Work hard

may God be with you

You will be suprised how things will eventualy work out for the best.

Always remember that things happen for a reason. You many not know it now, but later on you will. Just hang on and keep praying.

What more can you do if you're with them? You're better off here because you're earning money to send for her medical bills.

thank you gulf...yes either i like it or not i need to accept now...i am single 28yrs.old female and my parents died 2years ago for illness also i have 5 brothers and 3sisters...i am the second from the eldest...

Just hold on and be strong. All of us do have obstacles in life that we must face.

We have to be strong for ourselves, family and those who are defending on us.

Hold onto HIM, HE knows you are a strong enough to pass all HIS trials.

hello raro please read my message very well i need advice for my emotional stress not for my wallet stress...lol

My Friend, Life is unpredictable while so many thing cannot be forseen and predicatable.

People are always facing birth, Grow, Sickness and Die since mother is giving birth. The most important is to understand this is a route and cycle that everyone shall face with. So, just keep in peace and wish your brother to have a better time now.

In what we are saying in Chinese, people will go to other peaceful place if the people is a good person. I do believe your brother is a good people. So, he is now enjoying a good life and time in somewhere that we cannot see by our eye only.

Just take the best care on those still with you, like your parent, sister, wife and children. Treasure every second in your life with them. Distance in actual will not reduce the love between family.

Just pray for your family

Good Luck

yes you ae right spize i need advice not for money...thanks a lot for the support..

hello noura,thank you so much...i think you are right..this si life but hard to accept the reality... i try also charity at my country...but our govt'u cant get help easily bcz of the evry slow process there at the philippines....u get help after a months..

Raro, she is not begging for money. What she wanted is a moral support and sentiments from us.

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lynrendon don't hate yourself, because you already did everything you could to help your family. and I'm sure taht if you get the chance to send them more money or visit them you will do that.

We all lose our beloved ones without seeing them because they are in a different country, but this is life we can't get everything.

Hopefully your sister will get well soon and leave the hospital, and maybe come to visit you here :)