i was converted to muslim but my bf and i broke up because he cheated..

drmana,Farhan is just pouncing on the opportunity where a girl is severely hurted.he doesn't want to miss the chance,i guess...lol

Girl, u seems to be a non-believer of any RELIGION..U really sound stupid here..And the result is u have got almost all harsh comments by everyone..ISLAM won't accept neone who convert him/herself just for the heck of getting LOVE or BF/GF..U shld thoroughly learn about this beautiful RELIGION..

Don't trust anybody who say "I want marry you if you are a muslim", If he really want you, he will not care about your religion.

Don't trust anybody who say "I want marry you if you are a muslim", If he really want you, he will not care about your religion.

THE DEED HAS BEEN DONE AND I THINK WHAT THIS FELLOW NEED IS THE WAY OUT.

THERE IS A QUESTION I W'D LOVE TO ASK FIRST AND THAT WILL LEAD TO MY ADVICE. THE INITIAL MUSLIM HUSBAND U HAD HAVE U DIVORCED HIM LEGALLY? BECAUSE WITHOUT THAT U CANT MARRY SOME ELSE U KNOW?

IF THAT BE THEN YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIE TO ANY OTHER GUY PROPOSING TO YOU BECAUSE WE ARE IN A GLOBAL VILLAGE SOONER OR LATTER THE TRUTH WILL BE REVEALED, SO IT'T BETTER YOU OPEN UP TO HIM. TRUST ME IF HE REALLY LOVE YOU, HE WONT COUNT ON IT. "NO ONE ABOVE MISTAKE". AND ABOVE ALL, ALWAYS COMMIT YOUR STEPS BEFORE GOD AND HE SHALL GUIDE YOUR STEPS. SHALOM!!!

The Religion is not a game, change and return as you want. Just decide what you are want to be without thinking of your man. But if you decide to be a muslim, you can't marry christian.

FIRST,TRY AND UNDERSTAND WHAT ISLAM IS!!!

SECONDLY,DONT USE RELIGION FOR SETTLEMENT IN LIFE!!!

this is the problem

most offfff the girls convert into muslim just to find a man and get married or to finds good job.

not because they like islam

its clear and i know few samples the same this funy story

if u r really muslim u never ask this (how if i found a Christian guy who is willing to marry me..can i marry him without telling that i converted into a muslim )

and how u convert into muslim nd u say(using my previous religion which is Roman catholic)

so plz

u cheated on him and cheated the god

not he cheated on u

people here not Stupid

take care ur self

sorry for my words

Well, in your case i believe you should ask yourself ... have you just converted to a muslim for the sake of your ex-bf or because you really understand and feel Islam in your mind and heart ? because u must be very clear with yourself now, if you are a real muslim and believe in God from your mind and heart then forget about your ex-bf and just continue your life as being proud to be a muslim and in such case ( i mean by Islam regulations ) a muslim lady should only get married to a muslim man in order to have their kids muslims too ... u know if u married a christian man then your kids will become christians also as their father. While a Muslim man can marry from any religion in order to have his kids muslims too as their father's religion.

Hope this might help you a little bit in making up your mind angel.

You converted to Islam. But you are not Muslim! If you understand the teachings of Islam, you will not think this way. Better go back to your previous religion. I dont think that you can live as a good muslim.

you converted to a muslim because you want your boyfriend in your life and your questions tells me that you did not studied Islam at all just for the sake of Bf u did this

if you have studied Islam properly u wouldnt ask this question and besides this is for the sake of bf not for Islam aur Allah then its up to u

My question is check your heart and choose are you happy that you converted into muslim or you are happy for your previous religion? Coz i converted into muslim as well coz my husband is muslim but even if we will separate one day(I hope to allah never it will happen) i dont have plan to be a christian coz it doesn't mean that your going to convert only if your going to get married with a muslim guy coz religion is not a game. if you find a christian guy and if he accept for what you are now that means he really love you and he will marry you and he will understand as well. just keep praying allah is always with us. Good luck girl!

well, what can i say,

when i converted to islam, i wanted it to be a surprise for my husband LOL i nearly gave him a heart attack .... anyway, u can't deny your religion. if anyone would tell me not to state i am muslim, i would tell them to go to hell. i am happy and proud i made that choice, but looks like u r not. u have to convert to islam for urself, not for anyone else. if u don't feel it in your heart, haram, u r not muslim at all.

hi

it is bad status that u converted to Muslim ( i am Muslim ) just to get marry to some one may be he is good or bad that wht should be the reason to marry that love and respect regardless of your religion..

any way it seam to me that u are just looking for a husband

with even know him or wht ever

just take care life is not limited thing it is more than that

hi

it is bad status that u converted to Muslim ( i am Muslim ) just to get marry to some one may be he is good or bad that wht should be the reason to marry that love and respect regardless of your religion..

any way it seam to me that u are just looking for a husband

with even know him or wht ever

just take care life is not limited thing it is more than that

so in other words you will accept islam because of your husband not by your heart and sincere...now he cheated to you..

in my opinion you are also cheated....first you cheated ALLAH...this is your karma....ALLAH knows.

Well your question have couple of question to clarify the response and your postion on this....

Out of respect of your privacy...I suggest you to please send me private message and Insha'Allah i can help you on this.

Regards

Farhan, she is asking a situational question and seeking answers not marriage proposal. At least that is what I think from the question above. And are you seriously proposing a girl just after reading a question by her here in QL? Looks like QL is fast becoming a matchmaking website.

Hey my name is Farhan and i am ready to marry you if you are muslim. I am working in Qatar Airways. Please free to contact me my id is [email protected]. I will not mentioned my cell number here. Replz