this should not happen to anyone.....

noor2fml
By noor2fml

Hi all.
I am telling these things just to relax my self.
I love my wife a lot. She is my life. We are lovers and then got married. I took her on a visit VISA first to Qatar sooner I came here(in the 2nd month) and then took her again in a 6 months family visit after 2 weeks sending her. Now the duration of 6 moths over.
My Company is not giving any help to get a family visa. I don’t have enough salary as they ask for the family VISA.
There is no one offer the sponsorship to my wife too. In another 16 days I should send my wife home. It kills me when I think that we both will be in two places after 16 days. It is very hard to take this.
This is a Islamic country. In Islam it says how important Husband and wife to be together. And it is not that I’m going to keep here illegally if they give visa. Last 6 months we were very happy. And we were enjoying our time very well. There was no problem with money for us. So I just can’t think why this government worrying that much about the salary.
If we can stay together why this government can’t give us Family Visa? At least they can keep some other options to keep us together by giving us a conditional Family visa buy putting some limitations…. Or something.
I am just working another sponsorship. If not I’ll be going with my to my Country after 2 weeks time with my wife to settle. Only thing is that My wife is conceived. I have to disappoint her now. That is why I’m so so upset. Hope she will get the mind set to take this.
There are lot to tell. But I limit to this. Now feel bit OK after just telling this to u all.

Thanks for spending your time and sorry if I made u upset.

By poloclassic• 3 Oct 2009 11:12
Rating: 4/5
poloclassic

When ur salary is low tell me how u can maintane ur family if u get family visa,,,, yes its true that in islam u cant be away from ur wife for more than 6 months or less,,,,for this issue of urs dont blame to this country they have rules and regulation for our safety,,

By moonblues67• 3 Oct 2009 10:24
Rating: 5/5
moonblues67

My friend there are thousands& thousands like you in Qatar, the salary cap to bring in family is to give you minimum decency to live, enough for both of you to eat,especialy now your wife is pregnant, she needs good care & food. She is first time mother. We do share your agony. Pray to Allah,and have hopes. May Allah give you &your wife strength to cope up with the situation.You & your wife pray and make Dua in last hours of night. Allah will full fill your wishes, if it is good for you.

By abraham1723• 3 Oct 2009 10:22
Rating: 5/5
abraham1723

Sorry for this!!!!!!! but any don't loose your heart try to find some job for your wife & she will have the sponser visa and can stay with UUUUUUUUUU.

By gurl_under• 3 Oct 2009 09:55
Rating: 3/5
gurl_under

it is really painful to think considering that your wife is now pregnant...let's just hope that your company will reconsider and would allow you to let your wife stay here. smile... there is a rainbow at the end of the tunnel...

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