No I don't think pedophiles are ok (i said that in my post) I was trying to illustrate that there are many sexual orientations out there that are not simply the concious choice of the person in question.

By living in turmoil I was saying that pedophiles know that what they do is cruel and makes people suffer but they do have impulses to do it. Most resist them some do not.

I am not apologising for pedophiles or excusing them because ultimately it results in the suffering of another person and that cannot be acceptable in society. On this topic watch a film called The Woodsman it is interesting.

homosexuals have an orientation that is mutually consenting

Lili what are the diseases they get and transmit to others. I assume you are referring to AIDS. This was not created by gays please see http://www.avert.org/origins.htm

It is easier to transmit by anal sex and gay men tend to be more promiscuous but it is not their disease.

You cannot explain human nature by referring to our anatomy. Is anal sex wrong with a woman? Why? Because you don't get a baby from it. Is that the only reason you have sex? Is oral sex wrong?

Why is it wrng if from a man?

They did not invent a whole new way of having sex. In fact lili more accurately more modern society created a whole new way of saying that homosexuality was a wrong way of having sex.

I don't understand why you are so afraid of it.