Thing is Giasi and even from your personal experience you must know this...it is not just a choice. I say your personal experience because you, I assume, like me think the thought of engaging in a sexual act with a male is pretty horrible. To me being key.

So if it was a choice then presumably you would have had to make that choice and so would I. I didn't because I am not that way inclined.

This suggests that some are that way inclined and in fact feel completely differently towards members of the same sex than you or me. The fact that they feel this way is nothing to do with them.

Why should they not be allowed to follow their desires in just the same way as you or I follow ours?