I am sorry to say this but "Arab men & western women topic"is full of ignorance. Most westerners i met here have hard time distingushing between arabs,indians,bangalishes,south americans....etc. Some people think anybody who is non-white is an arab. How bizare is this!!!!
I want to share my experince with people when i was in the us. I stayed the first 2 years of college in white hood. Because I was one of the few non white people in that place. Everybody always used to stair at me. Both guys & girls staired, does that means that i have been sexually harrassed or eye raped for 2 years........etc, no it is just that i looked different. Sometimes it made feel special and sometimes i felt i do not belong there. It is just something you need getting used to. I think it actully increased my confidance of myself.