what is going through your head? I understand the desire to have financial security but to blatently advertise the fact you are essentially interested in the wallet is a little disturbing.

What ever happened to good old fashioned love and respect etc etc. The old addage that money can not buy you love is true. Personally I would rather be with a poor man I love than a rich man I did not.

You never know what is round the corner, start to stabalise yourself without relying on another person. You can only benefit from the strength it takes and I suspect that a man would find that qaulity far more alluring than the approach you have taken so far.

As people have said this forum is for all sort but you are unlikely to find what you are looking for here.

Good luck with finding you feet and your inner strength!