I will give my humble opinion through this small true strory:
A man says to his wife: You told me that you fell in love with me because i'm a rebel and i dont take life seriously and i live every day like its the last day and that you feel free whenever you're with me,
then you left me, why? because i'm a rebel and i dont take life seriously and i live everyday like its the last day and you dont feel free with me.
morale of the story, people change and girls dont know what they want. That same guy that she thinks she's falling in love with is actually her husband but 10 years before.
before you ladies jump on me for my comment, men cheat for 3 reasons: Sex, Sex and Sex, while women cheat because they think that the other guy will actually be different than their husband, but bottom line when they marry the other guy they will find out that he's the same man as their ex-husband. All men are the same, and i'm talking about normal, working ,loving men, no abusers and sex offenders or anything of this type.

I always tell the truth, even when I lie