I feel Cherie is a bit overwhelmed with all the responses/opinions/views/believes/attitudes/advice/etc... (different ones as well) this thread has generated, what's funny is that there was more men than women in the beginning of the thread and now it's the opposite, which can show you a bit the nature behind all these natural differences.

Anyhow, we are all here in this forum to help each other and share other's joys and challenges.

Hope you get your ideas straight in your head and act accordingly.

Enjoy the weekend ;)

H. Bennis