do what i do guys and believe me they won't ask again. Right after I graduated from university, I was sitting with my mom and dad over the dining table, and she goes: so, now that you got your degree, you can now work, make money, buy a house, have a god job and get married. Right then and there I gave them a short, very profound speach with a deep voice and it worked,ahaha: I said: mom, people make choices in their lives, and its not everyone's life mission to go through the path of life and follow the crowd, you and dad have obviously made indiviual dicisions to live a married life,right? she said yes ( being the openminded mom that she is...) so I said: so Im CHOOSING to stay a bachelor, just as you had a chance to CHOOSE to get married, let me exercise my right to CHOOSE to stay a bachelor. I swear, she didnt know where that came from? she was like: ok son, as long as you're happy with your life, I said, Yes I am ,thnx mom and that was it....It really works.