Child custody will take time and a court order is needed .First thing to do is file a case at the place where you live in Philippines and there will be court hearings before they can issue a child custody.You cannot get it here at the Phil embassy. As a mother you have the right for your child and not your in laws. And its been 2 months but you still haven't seen your child, hOw come? I don't know exactly the story between you and your family but I think there is something wrong somewhere.