In Europe we have mixed classes and so the kids learn from the first scool day on how do manage that stuff.And it is a normal thing if a man looks when he sees a pretty girl on the street.Also if he is married.So let him look,why not?A marriage is not to be arrested in jail for a lifetime.Also a married womans can have a decent look to a nice man.It is like to get appetite outside,but eating home.Many times it is the problem of us womans,we get jelous so fast for nothing.But if you trust your hubby,that would not be a big problem,if he looks to another one.Maybe she looks pretty and sexy from outside,but what is with the inner beauty?Anyway for myself i have many male friends,im engaged and i am talking about it open and so he must not have a bad feeling cos he knows he can trust me anytime.And the rest,well,as i sayd,let the men stare,why not?Sometimes it gives you a good feeling,just to know that they do it,so you know that you are alive and you looks not that shit as you thinking from yourself sometimes(especially on bad days).