u r in a country with differant nationalities living in it, so i think u have to reply them and know that there could be lots of reasons inside them, reply simply and try to take it easy, give every one the reply he deserve according to ur feeling and timing of his silly question.
ppl forgot that respect between 2 married creatures is more important then this word as it includes inside it the love, care, and feeling, which has 2 be existing between any man and women who decided to start this holy relation.my regards.