lovern_cute..If u want to know more about being a second wife..especially if u r a non muslim, reasons etc read this article ...hopefully it will help u make an informed descision before you make it...polygamy isnt forbidden in islam for certain reasons but it isnt always encouraged b/c as human beings it is hard for us to treat everyone equally and marry a second wife comes with huge reponsiblity that men may not be able to do...good luck with ur descision..

www.answering-christianity.com/polygamy