u ll have ur child ur own. then u wont be alone? u wont need a guy?

u and some other girls here.. dont be so desperate. just take it a bit easier. ur western rules unfortunately causes these things sometimes. u r forced to be independent and a powerful girl all the time but indeed none of us is like that. and being like that, scares boys! and i m sure there will be some guys for u to be together for long time, make a family, share a life...and not only bec u plan that, bec u both want it.

and i think u r not sure what u want.. i know u cant say i just want this.

i am also confused but i still have time to decide:)