As an Asian, I follow what my parent thought me, no matter what happen family comes first and try to balance everything else around it.

Example if my brother family got some problem with money, I hv no problem to give my money to help them out without expecting to receive back someday. As I know someday when I need help they are there for me. Or we talk alot and talk about anything. Even very private and personal. Which I think western dont do that as you all believe thats personal matter.

Well thats my opinion.

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand