Yes, I have wife but she is not here in Qatar and it has been a long time so I am trying to find out what would cause the least pain. (to both if us). In my case it is how much will she beat me.

Instead of fulfilling the promise of infinite orgasmic bliss, sex in the America of the feminine mystique is becoming a strangely joyless national compulsion, if not a contemptuous mockery.

Betty Friedan