Warning:  this situation hardly ever turns out good.  I speak from experience.  The worse thing is when the heartache comes either you can't get help from anybody because it has been a secret or nobody feels sorry for you because you are guilty of doing the wrong thing.

Everybody is different and every situation is different.  Whether or not a woman says she loves more than one person is not the only relevant thing.  Her actions will depend on whether she is comfortable with being a deceiver and whether she has fear of God.  I am not judging - I have done it all.  A woman is capable of maintaining a passionate affair but it will have a life span that might last a couple of months, who knows?  The situation brings great stresses and that leads to fights and a breaking point.

I know that it is pretty useless to say don't do it, you will.  The excitement is too irresistable.  I did it once and never again.  I lost everything.  But then again maybe I didn't actually lose anything.  I knew if I could betray my husband I never really loved him and was willing to leave.