you say: "Picture yourself going back home one day and finding your house bombarded flat by missles with family members laying beneath, wouldnt that inflict rage? live that moment for atleast a second, and see feel what those people feel."...

Just a small correction…

...the house get “bombarded” AFTER the family member committed suicide, not BEFORE. So "you" cannot come  back home one day and find your house bombarded.. because YOU ARE DEAD already…

..your Cause-and-Effect Relationship is broken here. First you commit suicide bombing, dragging to heaven another dozen of souls (BTW, VERY often including muslims as well, which is absolutely nonsense!! ) along with you, and after that your house has been bombarded.. NOT otherwise.