That's a bit extreme, don't you think? If he was hitting on your son's friends, then he'd be a pedophile..and just because he's gay, doesn't make him a  pedophile ...Besides if you used logic like that..then spouses in every marriage, gay or straight, would be hitting on the children's friends...

 

Some men really don't realize they are gay until one day the attraction just gets too strong for other men. They'd been told all their lives that you should only be attracted to the opposite sex..so they played the part...then when they grow up enough to be strong enough to admit they are gay..they admit it to their families and society. I've seen it happen.

 

I truly believe that some people are born with homosexual or lesbian tendencies..its not an illness and can't be "cured" by brain washing. So why not let these folks live their lives as they choose?

 

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)