but I know what you mean. Women tend to take everything to heart more so than men...not saying men don't feel things but women have it ingrained in them as caretakers...And sometimes the most innocently asked questions have some very deep roots.

you are jobless???  well ask around on here..maybe someone can help your situation also...

Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)