LOL I don't care what the people say about me being on this forum, they KNOW who I am and if I want to cuss, swear or otherwise I do it because shame is before Allah not the salafis or anyone else. I fear the judgment of Allah not the people in the dunyaa.
As for sitting with non salafis yea I do as do many many others including those in Birmingham. Am I taking my deen from the people I do jujitsu with? Or Kick boxing? uh no so the point you are making is lost and plus I have asked others in Birmingham to check this thread to see if I am wrong or you are so my words are open and clear and said without fear. Being me doesn't change my menhaj, being me doesn't make me suspect, it means I am nothing but a human and prone to anger, hate and all of the other vices people are prone to, how does that make me suspect in Aqeedah? Lol! So now I am sufi and believe in wahtul wajud because I am on a forum? Or I believe the Quraan is created and have become ashari in aqeedah? How does this make my menhaj suspect? Lol I think you have mis understood something.
I never claimed you were any of these things. I said that being on this very website and mixing with non salafis will often have people make judgements about you. Abu Iyaad does not sit with any person (as per according the sunnh) in this regard.
As for Abu Khadeeja I have never known him to be a back biter and I know SEVERAL cases where he went on the line to help people and they have repaid him with harm so for him backbiting... I find this quite.... ludicrous wa allahu alaim because I know Abu Khadeeja VERY WELL and this is not an attribute I know him to have.
I did not say that abu khadeeja back bit. I said another brother backbit my husband. A brother upon clear error and overly strict by any knowledgable persons standards.
"It was only after recieving an unwelcome from Abu Khadeeja. And mainly because of a friend of his"( a friend of my husband and abu khadeejas) "who burned him bad and backbit my husband for no islamic reason that we started to feel something was amiss."
Yes spubs has helped me several times but mostly in my deen and that is the most important thing because reliance is upon Allah and not the people no matter what their aqeedah is. You have misunderstood this deen yaa ukhtee kareem, take the ilm and leave the people they are a test to you me and each other. This deen isn't about this one and that one its about obeying Allah and his messenger till death overtakes you.. Don't be a burden on the people and they wont be one on you.
From Umm ud-Dardaa (radiyallahu anhaa) who said : I said to Abu Dardaa (radiyallahu anhu) will you not seek for things to entertain your guests with just as others seek for things for their guest? So he replied: I heard Allahs messenger say:
"Ahead of you is a steep mountain which will not be surmounted by those who are over burdened."
So he said I wish to lighten my load fort that ascent! [Al-hakim and Al-Baihaqee in Shu'abul emaan]
Pay heed to the companions.. Revelation was sent down to them they avoided the people including each other unless there was a need. They united and departed for the sake of allah only.
You expect too much of them sis wa allahu alim.
Right! I just don't believe that they avoided each other. Where is your proof! Well rounded proof that they avoided each other without supporting and helping each other, giving in charity (first to their community, and visiting each other when sick? Please! How will they know about these things unless they communicate. The situation in the is not the situation of living in a small village where knowledge is easy to gain. And one can visit each other.. wives see each other on the street. Just look at the salaams.. It is incumbant to greet each other with Salaams! Surely that is called communication. Unless you echo it like a parrot and don't mean it from your heart.
Actually I expected very little from the brother and his wife! Well alot to some people. I only expected forthrightness, honesty, enjoining each other upon good, and teaching the other what knowledge we know. By eating with such people and with the Prophet is how people learned the correct Islamic method. By talking with them is how we learn the correct Islamic way of speech, by reading their articles and having them scrutinize us is how we learn how to write our own articles.
Thank God you have people from spubs reading this. By all means invite them to respond to my accusations that I have made numerous times before. And while they are at it I do request that they keep all suspicion away from me. When in doubt then ask! And If one of us wrong then that person should sincerely apologise. So please prove I am wrong! Because so far none have bothered to be helpful on my quest for knowledge despite asking for it!
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LOL I don't care what the people say about me being on this forum, they KNOW who I am and if I want to cuss, swear or otherwise I do it because shame is before Allah not the salafis or anyone else. I fear the judgment of Allah not the people in the dunyaa.
As for sitting with non salafis yea I do as do many many others including those in Birmingham. Am I taking my deen from the people I do jujitsu with? Or Kick boxing? uh no so the point you are making is lost and plus I have asked others in Birmingham to check this thread to see if I am wrong or you are so my words are open and clear and said without fear. Being me doesn't change my menhaj, being me doesn't make me suspect, it means I am nothing but a human and prone to anger, hate and all of the other vices people are prone to, how does that make me suspect in Aqeedah? Lol! So now I am sufi and believe in wahtul wajud because I am on a forum? Or I believe the Quraan is created and have become ashari in aqeedah? How does this make my menhaj suspect? Lol I think you have mis understood something.
I never claimed you were any of these things. I said that being on this very website and mixing with non salafis will often have people make judgements about you. Abu Iyaad does not sit with any person (as per according the sunnh) in this regard.
As for Abu Khadeeja I have never known him to be a back biter and I know SEVERAL cases where he went on the line to help people and they have repaid him with harm so for him backbiting... I find this quite.... ludicrous wa allahu alaim because I know Abu Khadeeja VERY WELL and this is not an attribute I know him to have.
I did not say that abu khadeeja back bit. I said another brother backbit my husband. A brother upon clear error and overly strict by any knowledgable persons standards.
"It was only after recieving an unwelcome from Abu Khadeeja. And mainly because of a friend of his" ( a friend of my husband and abu khadeejas) "who burned him bad and backbit my husband for no islamic reason that we started to feel something was amiss."
Yes spubs has helped me several times but mostly in my deen and that is the most important thing because reliance is upon Allah and not the people no matter what their aqeedah is. You have misunderstood this deen yaa ukhtee kareem, take the ilm and leave the people they are a test to you me and each other. This deen isn't about this one and that one its about obeying Allah and his messenger till death overtakes you.. Don't be a burden on the people and they wont be one on you.
From Umm ud-Dardaa (radiyallahu anhaa) who said : I said to Abu Dardaa (radiyallahu anhu) will you not seek for things to entertain your guests with just as others seek for things for their guest? So he replied: I heard Allahs messenger say:
"Ahead of you is a steep mountain which will not be surmounted by those who are over burdened."
So he said I wish to lighten my load fort that ascent! [Al-hakim and Al-Baihaqee in Shu'abul emaan]
Pay heed to the companions.. Revelation was sent down to them they avoided the people including each other unless there was a need. They united and departed for the sake of allah only.
You expect too much of them sis wa allahu alim.
Right! I just don't believe that they avoided each other. Where is your proof! Well rounded proof that they avoided each other without supporting and helping each other, giving in charity (first to their community, and visiting each other when sick? Please! How will they know about these things unless they communicate. The situation in the is not the situation of living in a small village where knowledge is easy to gain. And one can visit each other.. wives see each other on the street. Just look at the salaams.. It is incumbant to greet each other with Salaams! Surely that is called communication. Unless you echo it like a parrot and don't mean it from your heart.
Actually I expected very little from the brother and his wife! Well alot to some people. I only expected forthrightness, honesty, enjoining each other upon good, and teaching the other what knowledge we know. By eating with such people and with the Prophet is how people learned the correct Islamic method. By talking with them is how we learn the correct Islamic way of speech, by reading their articles and having them scrutinize us is how we learn how to write our own articles.
Thank God you have people from spubs reading this. By all means invite them to respond to my accusations that I have made numerous times before. And while they are at it I do request that they keep all suspicion away from me. When in doubt then ask! And If one of us wrong then that person should sincerely apologise. So please prove I am wrong! Because so far none have bothered to be helpful on my quest for knowledge despite asking for it!
Asalaamu Alaikum rahmantullah wa barakatahau
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