Everyone, that you so much for your advice. He has told me not to worry that people will not bother us and he is even renting an extra 1 bdrm apt in case someone does. However, he plans on staying with me in it.

I have been super stressed out about all this as I don't want any trouble for me or him. I just want to be able to come and spend some quality time with him. I have done lots or research and know it's very different there and respect that. I will not draw any attention to myself.

Anything you can advise me on is much appreciated to everyone!