Well, as long as the woman in question is ready to handle a list( a list that contains all the things in her future spouse's culture the lady shud accept) like this coming from her future partner, i guess its a fair deal.

But personally, i do not believe that relationships start (or shud start)on mutually agreed upon lists(like a contract). Rather they start frm a gut feeling(call it chemistry,attraction or whtevr) n then shud grow thru the differances(cultural,relegious, personal)taking each of it, its stride n growing stronger as they reconcile with the differences. Its not possible or adviseable even, to start a reln ship only aftr knowing everything abt each othr. Coz the greatest fun in a relnship(wht keeps a relnship alive) is discovering each other,bit by bit, every day of ur life.

n if u want 2 preserve every single thing in ur life b4 marriage even after marriage, one shudnt get married! but then, this is only my personal opinion on wht I shud do in my life.
To each, his own!

Only a man who has got nothing to lose is capable of infinite love.