if he's here and she's here, then there can be SOME way he can get her to meet either one or the other at some time. What she can do is talk to him and tell him she wants to meet his parents...if he hedges and doesn't do it within, I'd say, two weeks, then she needs to run, not walk, from the relationship. In the meantime, she needs to stay out of the sack with him...because not only is it illegal here, she will get herself more involved with him emotionally.

Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.