Sorry to say this but it seems obvious that you and your buddies know very little about the world in general and men in particular. I would suggest that the attitudes you express in this thread are not truly genuine but are the result of mutual indoctrination. In other words, you have come to believe certain things simply because your 'friends' require it of you. Better wake up, make up your own mind about things and don't 'go with the flow' just because that is the easiest route.