Well, Ramada aren't you doing the same thing
(to supernurse n gypsy) you get sick n tired of ppl doing with your wife.("I get sick and tired of the prejudice and stereotyping she is sometimes subjected to, usually by europeans and mostly by brits."). I'm talking abt the freebie/pickup thing u mentioned above. So whats the difference between you n the ppl u r 'sick n tired of'?

As to Western Men marrying Asian women, do we need to generalise? Maybe western men travel more than their female counterparts...i mean more as in more number of men, so more of w.men marry asian women than w.women marrying a.men
Maybe they tend to get fascinated by a person from an alien culture.
Or may be its just abt two individuals meeting at some part of the world n hitting it off.

Do we need to look for patterns in how a human being connects with another?

Somebody told me, "You are what you eat".Now I know why I'm nuts!!