Actually if you are a muslim then perhaps you should start practicing your religion before you start taking advantage of it when it suits your fancy.

I guarantee that until you have knowledge of Islam (starting with the priorities first) you have and will gain alot of sins from the mistreatment of your current wife. As well as the sins of knowing and loving another lady (which in islam is haram). And then to marry her and not give her rights you will definately be limping on the judgement day. And perhaps have the punishment of an oppressor, a hypocrite, an unjust person, the list goes on.

Brother I urge you to go and learn your religion before you even contemplate such things. Once you have knowledge and have cut off all haram relationships. Then perhaps you can talk with your wife and come to an agreement should you still decide to take a second wife. This is the most just and righteous way if your truly believe! And remember this life is very short and perhaps when you have gained knowledge you will realize that one wife is more than enough.

Thank you for being such a perfect example of what is wrong with the muslim ummah!

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi