lol nadt you and an I said the same thing (in our own way )

3sure hunk

The people you are describing had great knowledge and practice of Islam! It is quite obvious you do not even have basic knowledge that you must resort to asking a bunch of non muslims about marrying a second wife in the first place.

Wake up and smell the Quran! You might learn something!

Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi