What can I say - after 19 years of marriage (to one and only one man) and two kids - I just could not let this one pass. You know - God does not promise that marriage will be easy. It is work and requires work every day but like all things that are worth working for you get out of it what you put into it. There are good times and not so good times. And the first rush of young love does fade but it is replaced by something stronger and steadier and long lasting if you just give it a chance. It just fries me to hear a "man" who goes off looking for greener pastures at the first bump in the road!!!!