Hey I am not physically disabled in anyway.. I am a very smart, educated, beautiful and most of all a very intelligent young woman of 33.. The only problem is that the men that I have come across in my life are big time loosers and they don't have stamina to handle a strong willed woman like me because they know they can't rule me or make me a door mat. I have got a very good job and perfectly capable of looking after myself.. I have no problems whatsoever marrying a divorced man or a widower but there is on way would I even consider being a second wife of a married man.. A second wife nothing else but a legal mistress in the eyes of society.