I think one of the undisclosed problem here is that he feels that he may never get to marry that girl.

My advice, just go ahead and do it bro, don't tell me you don't wank off anyway. Moreover, having a girlfriend itself and foreplay in Islam is haraam. You have already sinned and pretty much gonna burn in hell for quite a few years for doing all that. Might as well go all the way and add few more years, what the heck!

For all that you know, there's no heaven or hell after your death. I'm not one of those who would die wondering!

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3000 QL Points
Way to go Ray!
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