"He cannot do anything bad to her in qatar"? Sun, I beg to disagree. The question is, "Why you as a lady would go to where the man is? And let me stress the fact that the distance to go to this man is thousands of miles a way, even". Of course you point of view that something that goes "Is he a serial killer luring me of a future loving relationship so he could hurt me physically?" may seem as an important factor to think about too..but come on, really?
Bottom line is, I think ETHICS, CONCERNS OF THE HEART, and EMOTIONS are the ones at stake here..